Search This Blog

Monday, September 21, 2020

Tales from the Family Jewelry Box #1

 Recently, I was searching on eBay for Victorian mourning jewelry.  You know the fancies that take you from time to time?  I had an intense craving to own a mourning brooch, and I decided to see what both fit my budget and appealed to me aesthetically.  Although I'm fascinated by Victorian hair jewelry, I'm also a bit horrified by it, so that was out.  I would have loved a piece of carved jet, especially proper Whitby jet, and I did earmark a few pieces on my watchlist.  But they were either a bit too small for my purposes, or considerably too pricey, or the bidding history suggested someone else might have lost their heart to the piece.  In the end, I chose this, which I absolutely adore.  I'm sure the leaf is symbolic of something, especially as I saw several brooches with a similar design.  New life in the face of death?  Falling autumn leaves?  While most of my antique and vintage jewelry is family pieces, I'm happy to have this one among them.


One thing that struck me, as I looked through the listings, was all of the pins with photographs in them which were labelled as mourning jewelry.  That may have been the case with some of the pieces, but I have two examples in my own collection which I happen to know were "proud parents" pieces, worn by two of my great grandmothers, from the last decade of the 19th century and the first one of the 20th.



The one on the left belonged to one of my great-grandmothers on my father's side.  The two children are my great-uncle Harry and my great-aunt Elizabeth -- this picture must have been taken before my grandfather (Fred), the youngest, was born.  My great-aunt was born in 1893, and as she lived to be 103, I was lucky enough to get to know her well.  The one on the right is my Nana, my maternal grandmother, who's solo because she was an only child.  I absolutely love her masses of curly hair and the off-the-shoulder dress.  I have a copy of the full-length photograph this was cropped down from, and she's wearing adorable high-button shoes, as well.  Nana (Marion) was born in 1905, and she's pretty young here, so I'd guess this is pre-1910. 

They're midway between 18th and early 19th century jewelry with painted miniature portraits, on the one hand, and modern jewelry with children's names or birthstones, on the other.  More public than a locket, less fancy than a cameo, from a time when photography was still an event rather than an everyday occurrence, they speak of parental pride in an absolutely delightful way.

Do you have old family photo jewelry?  What stories does your jewelry box tell?  I'd love to hear!


Cate Simon is the author of Courting Anna, which came out from Prairie Rose last year.  When not teaching college English, she's reading 19th century cultural history and hard at work on her next fiction project.  She would be very, very happy if you bought her book, and she's pretty sure you'd enjoy it, too.









9 comments:

  1. What a delightful post, Cate. I like your choice of a mourning brooch--not too much; not too little. The miniature paintings of your great grandmothers inserted into brooch frames were so lovely. I know you treasure them.

    I do have a few treasures in the family jewel box. One of them is a golden stalk of flowers with little diamonds in the middle of the flowers that belonged to my maternal grandmother and a gold and silver class ring that belonged to my dad that he used as a wedding ring when he married my mom. I have pictures of my paternal great grandparents. My great grandfather McNeal fought for the Union cavalry in the Civil War. He and my grandfather McNeal are sitting in chairs out on the lawn. They both had the same fierce, penetrating eyes.

    I am glad you were able to spend time with your great grandmother and got to know her so well. This was a wonderful post of your family history and treasures. All the best to you, Cate.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks, Sarah! My great aunt, actually, not my great grandmother. I didn't overlap with anyone from that generation. But my great aunt was pretty amazing -- she had some stories which will definitely end up in fiction someday!


      Delete
  2. What a wonderful story to have - thank you for sharing it with us. You can almost see the moment, imagine the day. It brings it alive for us. I'm sure I had such keepsakes at one point in my grandmother's and mother's things, but they, and their stories, have been lost to time (and multiple moves...).

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. This is Irene, btw. Oddly, it loaded my email without prompting, but not my name...

      Delete
  3. A lovely post. No, we don't have anything as both sides lost everything in WW2 and were lucky to survive. What lovely things to have. Is that a holy leaf? If it is it means truth and wisdom.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Beautiful choice of mourning jewellery- very tasteful. Your family photo jewellery is also gorgeous. :)

    ReplyDelete
  5. Your post brings up memories of my own family, but not in jewelry, but photos and stories. Thank you for that. Doris

    ReplyDelete
  6. I've done a lot of research into my own family, but not through jewelry. Your post was very interesting.

    ReplyDelete
  7. Very interesting post. I'd never heard of mourning jewellery. The family photo pieces are fascinating. How lucky you are to have them!

    ReplyDelete