Post by Doris McCraw
writing as Angela Raines
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| I confess I procrastinate by heading outside to hike and take photos. Photo property of the author |
How many know the song 'Anticipation' by Carly Simon? Well, have you ever thought of substituting the word "procrastination" for the title of the song? Here's an example:
Procrastination, Procrastination,
Is makin' me late
Is keepin' me waitin'
It fits, doesn't it? The words even fit.
Now, I confess, I've always been a huge fan of Carly and her writing. As I pondered what I'd write about this month, the song and the word just kept at me.
The above is kind of 'tongue in cheek' but procrastination can be something that can stop us in our tracks. We think if we procrastinate we are bad. If we're not working we are lazy. Admittedly, it can grow into a huge wall in our creative lives. But, I would say it also gets a bad reputation.
In November of 2015, an article was posted online via Psychology Today about how "procrastination can actually improve your productivity and happiness." Here is a short version of what I took from the article.
If you are an active procrastinator you probably do anything but what you need to do. Guess what? You are getting your 'to do' list done. The dishes, laundry, that letter you were going to write. Soon you just have that one thing you've been avoiding and guess where that can lead?
Sometimes when you put something off, you forget why it was important. If you re-evaluate it, you may decide it wasn't really necessary.
Have you ever realized that procrastination can help you focus on what's really important to you? Think about it.
For me, and probably for others, when a task (can we talk writing a novel here?) is feeling daunting, we put it from our thoughts. What is really happening, especially for me, is my subconscious is working out the logistics and when I do sit down the words flow a lot easier.
Big decision? Procrastinating on what you will do actually gives you time to reconcile your rational mind and intuition, especially if they are diametrically opposed. You are giving yourself breathing room to find what is really the right choice for you.
I loved this point. Procrastination can lead to a better apology. How you may ask? Well, if you put off the offering of the words of apology until after you 'cool off', your words are probably going to be more heartfelt and ring true to the listener.
Get lost in the possibilities
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For those who would like to read another article "The Perks of Procrastination/" from a Harvard posting, here is the link: https://professional.dce.harvard.edu/blog/the-perks-of-procrastination/
Of course, none of this is an excuse to not get your story or your novel written. It doesn't excuse not following up with marketing, but it does mean, 'Don't be so hard on yourself"
As the beginning of the song says:
'We can never know about the days to come
But we think about them anyway ..."
For those who would like to hear the whole song, here is a link to the Youtube video:
Just think about it, Anticipation/Procrastination
Until next month, be kind to yourself and keep those thoughts going and fingers moving.
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